NF - I tend to get along with them pretty well. Sometimes I feel like I have to walk on eggshells though - and while I'm busy doing this one of them will suddenly side-swipe me with a strong opinion... It's hard to explain, but it annoys me. Like, they'll try to come at me from a realm of personal opinion about a topic when I was just speaking hypothetically, not intending to express any personal opinion of my own. And as they formulate their own personal opinion about what I've said, they'll insert what they assume to be mine, even though I didn't intend to express one, and I didn't want the conversation to go down that road at all. It's just a wierd disconnect sometimes. That hyper-individuality/originality stuff can rub me the wrong way at times too. But I generally really like NF's.
SP - Don't know many. I think I know an ISFP and she's cool. Except when she's going on about the finer details of the plumbing problem in her house and how she intends to fix it.
SJ - Usually things go fine with them. I know a lot of SJ's. Though I hate it when they pull out the self-righteous crap. Sometimes I feel they look at me as a novelty not meant to be taken seriously. They'll laugh at my jokes and say that they think I'm really smart, but then turn around and harrass me for not having a boyfriend or not having 5 jobs like they do or not having a set schedule, or whatever else. And when I try to argue, I can tell they've blocked me already and it's totally futile. They'll hear me, but they won't listen.
NT - I tend to enjoy NT's, though the few NTJ's I know can drive me a little nuts at times. The ones I know are both really confident but also try their hardest to be really wierd. It can be hard to have a serious conversations at times, because somehow it'll all devolve into a "who can say the wierdest catchphrase in this context" contest. And while I'm all for that, I think it has its time and place. And they don't seem to agree with me on that. They're also 19-21 year-old guys though, so that could be a huge part of it. The NT females I know are awesome.