[INTJ] How do You bring sexy back?

[Synarch]

Regain your confidence, if you feel like your sexy has gone then it will have gone because you've lost the confidence that made you sexy in the first place.

You've nailed it.

Confidence = You're okay no matter what. Independent yet engaged in the physical and social world around you.

As soon as you stop worrying about being sexy while simultaneously trying to stay connected with others and healthy, you will be sexy. Look after your apppearance, get healthy, and just try to build good relationships with your friends. As far as when you're ready to meet some women, enlist the help of other women and try to hang out with some hot female friends. They will provide social proof.

 

[Firelie]

So, you were in a relationship for a long time that ended and now you've been single for a little bit and you're thinking about dating again. How do you bring sexy back?

That's making the assumption that the sexy left when the relationship ended.

I think the real problem is why a person's sexy would depart in the first place.

Mine likes to stick with me all the time!

 

[BlackOp]

So, you were in a relationship for a long time that ended and now you've been single for a little bit and you're thinking about dating again. How do you bring sexy back?

I bought a Porsche....and I'm gonna get me a German princess out of spite. I cant speak German so we should get along swell. Girls say they dont care about cars.....its a lie. The problem is a lot of guys want to talk to you too....It's fun being shallow but its even more fun pretending to be shallow.

BTW, less than 5% find intjs sexy..and they live in trees. You have to bring the "sexy" to them.

 

[LeonardoLestat]

So, you were in a relationship for a long time that ended and now you've been single for a little bit and you're thinking about dating again. How do you bring sexy back?

art.

 

[GargoylesLegacy]

I think BerberElla and Synarch really said it with

Regain your confidence, if you feel like your sexy has gone then it will have gone because you've lost the confidence that made you sexy in the first place.

Also, when you are happy you tend to have a reaaaally great and attracting Charisma, which also makes you sexy.
So basically do Something you enjoy and makes you feel self-confident. That will so do it!

 

[Willfrey]

As far as when you're ready to meet some women, enlist the help of other women and try to hang out with some hot female friends. They will provide social proof.

Bingo. I've met more women through the G/F's of my other friends then I've met on my own.

 

[Wild horses]

Socks and flip-flops.

..... Always wondered what made the Geisha so sought after!

 

[MiasmaResonance]

You have to be sexy to start with, first off.

 

[tinkerbell]

I wear spandex. And an eye patch. I am legendary.

LOL

 

[tinkerbell]

re-learn to flirt... practice if needbe, flirth with waiting staff etc

 

[ThatGirl]

Hahaha! I forgot about this thread.


Get naked.