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[ENTJ] Misplaced in the world: ENTJs explained (+ book: Please understand me...

Mechnick

The Crow
Joined
Oct 7, 2016
Messages
198
You are all passive-agressive suckers




Thats why we are misunderstood.
 

Yuurei

Noncompliant
Joined
Sep 29, 2016
Messages
4,509
MBTI Type
ENTJ
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8w7
You are all passive-agressive suckers

Thats why we are misunderstood.

Right?! I don't see how. We're pretty straight-forward.

I love it when I say something so very direct and then someone just assumes I'm being passive-aggresive because they are fucking projecting!

And then I try to, in an equally direct manner tell them that they misunderstood:
" Why are you trying to pick a fight with meeeeeeee!?"

I recently ran an event as a favor to someone. The event was very similar to another that had gone very poorly. Of course, there was a mix-up and I was blamed fir the event in which I had absolutley NOTHING to do.
No matter how many times I explained this to some guy he just git super offended and started yelling and screaming that he could do it better.
Naturally, I HATE wasting time so I just said
"Fine, run it."
"Stop arguing with me bitch!"
"Ugh. We need to get shit done. Are you going to run it are not?"
" Waaaaaah! fucking bitch Ima tell on you for picking on me!"
*Rubbing temples* " ...we still need to both panels. Which one do you want to run?"
" That's it! Ima tell on you for harassment."

I continued trying to get him to cool his shit and commit to something officail but he just kept screaming at me. In the end I ran both events myself. And yes, I run into this nonesense all.The.Time.

People be crazy as shit yo.
 

Mechnick

The Crow
Joined
Oct 7, 2016
Messages
198
Right?! I don't see how. We're pretty straight-forward.

I love it when I say something so very direct and then someone just assumes I'm being passive-aggresive because they are fucking projecting!

And then I try to, in an equally direct manner tell them that they misunderstood:
" Why are you trying to pick a fight with meeeeeeee!?"

I recently ran an event as a favor to someone. The event was very similar to another that had gone very poorly. Of course, there was a mix-up and I was blamed fir the event in which I had absolutley NOTHING to do.
No matter how many times I explained this to some guy he just git super offended and started yelling and screaming that he could do it better.
Naturally, I HATE wasting time so I just said
"Fine, run it."
"Stop arguing with me bitch!"
"Ugh. We need to get shit done. Are you going to run it are not?"
" Waaaaaah! fucking bitch Ima tell on you for picking on me!"
*Rubbing temples* " ...we still need to both panels. Which one do you want to run?"
" That's it! Ima tell on you for harassment."

I continued trying to get him to cool his shit and commit to something officail but he just kept screaming at me. In the end I ran both events myself. And yes, I run into this nonesense all.The.Time.

People be crazy as shit yo.

Yes, we are straight- forward, thats why they cant deal with us, so they turn into Norwegians.



We (ENTJs) are more like Scotsmen. (Gingerbeard.)



And, our women

 

ceecee

Coolatta® Enjoyer
Joined
Apr 22, 2008
Messages
15,908
MBTI Type
INTJ
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8w9
They're not misunderstood. At all. But they have a tendency to suffer from delivery problems. They often have issues with constructive criticism on this subject, which makes no sense to me because it seems counterproductive to allow such a small adjustment to be a barrier to their messages and goals and claims of being straightforward. Work on delivery, more receptive audiences (minions, followers, whatever they're shooting for) with far less ENTJ angst.
 

Mechnick

The Crow
Joined
Oct 7, 2016
Messages
198
They're not misunderstood. At all. But they have a tendency to suffer from delivery problems. They often have issues with constructive criticism on this subject, which makes no sense to me because it seems counterproductive to allow such a small adjustment to be a barrier to their messages and goals and claims of being straightforward. Work on delivery, more receptive audiences (minions, followers, whatever they're shooting for) with far less ENTJ angst.

You can come to my house to see do I have delivery problems.
 

Zeldon

New member
Joined
Apr 16, 2017
Messages
9
MBTI Type
ENTJ
I have read Please Understand Me 2, and I have to say that the term field marshal is a bit abrasive.
 
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