You're competely misunderstanding, we only appear that way because we dont care about you.
Seriously, people hate us because we come right out and say what most only think. For me, I've spent so much of my life in angst about being unfairly hated and dismissed by others that I've to shut out others. Its the only way I can face the world to be honest. The more people I come to know, the more despairing I become of the human race. When empaths use their empathy to wound others for kicks I find it hard to respect or admire them.
No one ever gets to know me beyond a facade. I am purposefully boring because its a sure-fire way to get people to leave me alone. 'Weird' is an easy expectation to live up to. All people really want from you is to fulfill their expectations. I aim to please.