I'm not a controlling person. Especially in team projects, even if someone else isn't the most learned in what we're working on, I like to hear everyone's input because to me it's just interesting to hear what people have to say, and it's just always good to hear what others think (most of the time.)
I'm a serious person, but I also smile and laugh often.
I'm not a huge perfectionist in everything I do, but I get selective.
I've had a ton of struggles with self confidence.
I take more social initiative than INTJs are depicted out to be. As a whole I'm kinda irritated with things like "speed friendship" (which we just had at the college I'm at) because it seems like too much of a crapshoot and most of the time nothing REALLY worthwhile comes of it (friend or relationship.)
Still using a needle to break apart a grain of sand.