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    Yes, this is generally how people tend to make friends...
    The larger 'sample' of humanity you sift through, the more people you'll find to click with. Introverts typically meet simply fewer people, and so clicking is more rare. It's still relatively rare for me, but over time I suspect the actual number of people I click with has become higher than a typical introvert of my age.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AvereX View Post
    its not Ni

    if we were talking about a real-time situation or new place that your Ni said ' this is it ' - yes
    or Se would have a hunch that a shoe or weapon felt right-lol

    but this is concerning people - automatically clicking is probably someone's compatibility with your Ni, but that's it

    but at the same time it is-for i do the same thing
    however, all functions are capable of such-perhaps not as quickly, but still capable
    Interesting theory. I didn't really mean this thread to turn into a "Is it Ni?", more so a "Do you do it too? And if you do, how do you think you do it."
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    Quote Originally Posted by DigitalMethod View Post
    Interesting theory. I didn't really mean this thread to turn into a "Is it Ni?", more so a "Do you do it too? And if you do, how do you think you do it."
    ah.

    i do it - but i pair Ni with Se
    i look at there body language-since people comminicate the most when they are not talking, and when they are hiding something

    a girl who folds her arms-permissible
    but if she walks while doing so - much too passive

    If her hips are on a 5/4 time signature while the rest of her body is 4/4
    yay-she has character-spunk

    other than that - its facial expressions-what they wear
    high heel shoes are usually a no no
    i like a girl who goes for smart and comfortable-and wouldn't put herself in pain just to look cute
    loose linen-loose jeans-i heard tight is not all that comfortable

    i signify glasses with someone who is so discerning that their eyes have suffered for it

    eye contact-if you don't make direct eye contact-either weary of strangers or a coward
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    Quote Originally Posted by AvereX View Post
    ah.

    i do it - but i pair Ni with Se
    i look at there body language-since people comminicate the most when they are not talking, and when they are hiding something

    a girl who folds her arms-permissible
    but if she walks while doing so - much too passive

    If her hips are on a 5/4 time signature while the rest of her body is 4/4
    yay-she has character-spunk

    other than that - its facial expressions-what they wear
    high heel shoes are usually a no no
    i like a girl who goes for smart and comfortable-and wouldn't put herself in pain just to look cute
    loose linen-loose jeans-i heard tight is not all that comfortable

    i signify glasses with someone who is so discerning that their eyes have suffered for it

    eye contact-if you don't make direct eye contact-either weary of strangers or a coward
    You do this... subconsciously right.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DigitalMethod View Post
    You do this... subconsciously right.
    yes
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    I think it's pretty natural and everyone does it to some extent. If you don't have Ni, you have something else that you're using in it's place.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AvereX View Post
    its not Ni

    if we were talking about a real-time situation or new place that your Ni said ' this is it ' - yes
    or Se would have a hunch that a shoe or weapon felt right-lol

    but this is concerning people - automatically clicking is probably someone's compatibility with your Ni, but that's it

    but at the same time it is-for i do the same thing
    however, all functions are capable of such-perhaps not as quickly, but still capable
    could be Se.

    Ni maybe. Define what you mean by "clicking" a little more...
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    Quote Originally Posted by DigitalMethod View Post
    It's odd. I suspect Ni. But I do it with everyone I meet in real life.

    I somehow sense the person.

    Then with about 5% of all the people I meet, I am somewhat comfortable with. That percent could easily become a friend in a month or two.

    Then with about 2% of all the people I meet, I automatically click with them from the start. They could easily become my friend in one or two days. They could share complex discussions with me from day two. I would initially be shocked since no one has ever opened up to me like that. But nonetheless I would feel comfortable.

    Anyone else like this, or am I just crazy? Is it a Ni thing?
    I'm not sure if it's an Ni thing. I always thought it was just observation.

    I can usually tell within 5 minutes the sort of relationship I can have with a person based on what they say and how they move. Sometimes even less if they interact with me more thoroughly than a usual stranger.

    These relationships usually happen exactly as I thought they would. Not always, though, because circumstances sometimes get in the way. (for instance, there's this girl at work that I know I'd be great friends with, but she happens to work on the other side of the building and our two jobs don't come together very often, so we settle for chatting on the fly)

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    Quote Originally Posted by DigitalMethod View Post
    You do this... subconsciously right.
    lol

    its funny because i dont look at peoples body lauguage as much as facial expressions (im aware thats technically body language). facial expression is much easier for me to read.

    props for being able to do that
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