Intelligence and creativity are the most attractive qualities to me while ambition and assertiveness are a nice bonus. I honestly donít believe that a long-term relationship with a Sensor would work for me. Most of my friends are Sensors but my lifestyle choices are so unconventional and idealistic that it could easily strain our marriage. Combine that with our completely different habits of thought, ideas of what we find important, and the general inability for most people to understand how I think and the S/N divide becomes a lot more foreboding. My ideal type would probably be INTP or INTJ since frankly Iím not warm enough to be married to a Feeler. I prefer Introverts since their qualities are less obvious on first observation (yes, they're more "mysterious").