My best friend of roughly a million years was likely to be loud and kinda obnoxious about his views/opinions when I first met him in high-school. He is one of the few people I have ever been close to who I would describe as "abrasive." He has gotten a lot better about this over the years, but it is crazy for me to remember now that I thought he was a real annoying ass when I first met him.
I don't really know any other INTJ's in my day to day life, and have been curious about this aspect of his personality for a while. It seems to be in some ways at odds with being an introvert to me.