I tend to be typed as either INTJ/INTP by tests, but my NT is progressively becoming an NF (I've been changing a lot due to recent events in my personal life). Thing is, I've always been an INTJ, but I'm different in a lot of ways. I get called a "softie" and a "cutie" or "sweetie" by most of the females I talk to, because I tend to enjoy talking about their problems/feelings and helping them through them, and I'm beginning to become more sensitive. I do think that criticism is more important than someone's feelings, but I have noticed that recently I'm beginning to become more aware of their emotional responses to things, and, kind of caring about that. However, I am often known as "the smart" guy by my friends, and whenever they see someone I've just met getting into a debate or disagreement with me, they jokingly warn them to; "stop before things get ugly". That being said, I think a lot of things attributed to INTJ's do not apply to me. I'm the exact opposite of narcissistic, but instead very insecure, though I can be an elitist when it comes to some things, for example; if someone says they listen to Lil' Wayne or something like that, I'll laugh at them. I tend to be very theoretical, and have a natural disrespect for most authority figures in my life, because I see them as incompetent. So, I don't really understand this, I do have some things in common with INTJ's, but what's the rest of this shit? INTJ's are often seen as being cold, and I've never been described as that before, I'm often known as the "sweet" person, which seems to contradict a lot of what an INTJ is... Anyway what's your opinion? Does this point to a different type? Or is this normal for an INTJ, and I've just been misinformed.