Although INTJ women are fairly more emotionally balanced than their robotic counterpart, the only issue I would have is how they deal with vulnerability. Every type has a certain signature on how they keep themselves guarded. I can't foresee an INTJ taking emotionally expressive initiative, whether it be physically or verbally, unless, the particular INTJ has advanced in certain areas than the average.
They have excellent characteristics that are highly attracted to, dare I say it, all types; such as loyalty, purpose, stability, and integrity. But if they can't accept love as a cat and mouse game, the other party will lose interest. Keep in mind that I'm not speaking about all INTJ's.