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    Default intj girls: where are you and how do i get you?

    intj girls are like secret agents in that they don't want you to know they are there. that is the only explanation as to why i barely see them.

    furthermore, how do i know that you like me and/or how do i get you to like me?

    i'm trying to get this intj girl i can't tell if she's interested, that's how she is, or if she's playing games... i'm an enfp, my precognitive abilities are baffled.

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    If you don't like the way an ENFP feels about you, wait five minutes.

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    Does she seem like she's trying to escape when you talk to her? Do you talk to her? Has she actively sought to talk to you on more than one occasion?
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    Be original and interesting.
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    ahahaha, Jack that was good.

    it's mostly all just us talking and her being a jerk (in an intriguingly good way) and me trying to analyze her wit and humor as possible flirting? no she's not trying to escape. yeah, she has sought me out but i figure that's normal cause i got seek people out when i need to talk to them all the time.

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    i love the title of this thread. LOL

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    Eh, it's usually a good thing when they're actually looking for you - it means your are actually interesting. Not sure if that equates to hot for you, but it definitely is a start.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sketcheasy View Post
    ahahaha, Jack that was good.

    it's mostly all just us talking and her being a jerk (in an intriguingly good way) and me trying to analyze her wit and humor as possible flirting? no she's not trying to escape. yeah, she has sought me out but i figure that's normal cause i got seek people out when i need to talk to them all the time.
    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    Eh, it's usually a good thing when they're actually looking for you - it means your are actually interesting. Not sure if that equates to hot for you, but it definitely is a start.
    I agree with Runvardh on this one, you're in good hands. It's your personality that attracted her in the first place, so keep at it. Since we're introverts with extroverted thinking, we can be stingy on time and any moment we spare to others indicates they're worth our attention. INTJs usually don't move fast in the romantic department and it takes awhile for their feelings towards you to surface.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sketcheasy View Post
    ahahaha, Jack that was good.

    it's mostly all just us talking and her being a jerk (in an intriguingly good way) and me trying to analyze her wit and humor as possible flirting? no she's not trying to escape. yeah, she has sought me out but i figure that's normal cause i got seek people out when i need to talk to them all the time.
    If she's aware of your personality being more on the... F side, then you could probably go ahead and be overtly sexual.

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    sweet, overtly sexual is my MO, lmao XD

    but seriously, where are most of you? i know like two... in high school and freshman year of college you guys were like ninjas.

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