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    Heh, I never know what to do with the hug thing. If you come at me with your arms open then I'll reciprocate. If you expect a hug without letting me know then you're going to be disappointed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shadowrose View Post
    That's interesting, actually. I'm kind of the exact opposite of that, with a caveat or two. I only touch people I like and respect. Period. If I don't like a person, I will go out of my way not to touch them. However, those that're close to me, I'm basically constantly touching. I've been rather offputting before because of it, in fact.

    Then again, I also like biting people.
    same here. i've had people lean in to hug me, and i've stopped them with a look and a very obvious step backwards that clearly implied, "yeah, that's not gonna happen."

    asshole men who have gotten too friendly too early and touched me have been embarrassed in front of their friends by having me dramatically stop everything i'm doing and reply, "did i say you could touch me?"

    however, with those i really like, even at work, i've been known to reach out and hug on a whim (ask ivy), even tackle from behind if that's how it's gotta be. i can't help it.

    basically, it boils down to this: i want you to know, good, bad, or neutral, where you stand.

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    unless faking it is in my best interest, but i go way out of my way to make sure i end up in that spot as rarely as possible. i despise feeling fake.
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    I give hugs freely! . . . if sometimes awkwardly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IF3157 View Post
    I give hugs freely! . . . if sometimes awkwardly.
    I'm glad to hear it. I'm glad not everyone is like me.

    I don't hug people a lot, I'm kinda standoffish, but I appreciate those friends of mine who are brave enough to break through to me and hug me anyway.

    If I've got my arms around someone, it's really important. If I'm seeking out arms, it's really important. We saw this show once about tiger cubs, and one cub was pretty belligerent and getting into everything. His handler was a patient person. One day the cub almost gets bitten by an adult, and immediately the cub retreated to his safe person, his handler, pushes his face against his handler's face and chest, seeking reassurance after that bad scare. My sister says that's like me.

    My ENFP sister is contrastingly demonstrative; she hugs me frequently and I have her to thank for keeping me human in that way.
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    Ah, hugs... If I don't know the person likes them they tend to need to initiate it with me. I'm also stiff for the first second then manage to relax... I like them too though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    Ah, hugs... If I don't know the person likes them they tend to need to initiate it with me. I'm also stiff for the first second then manage to relax... I like them too though.
    I tend to take physical contact as highly personal.

    Aside from just your average goofing around or poking or whatever, anything protracted, like a hug, works powerfully on my Fe, and I get overwhelmed, for better or worse.

    When I was hospitalized, I exhaustedly laid my head in my ESFP friend's lap and wailed in frustration. She just sat there with her arms around me, stroking me and rocking until the storm passed by. The world doesn't intimidate her. I needed her to shield me for a little while. That's what got me through the first shock.

    I remember a story this hunter told once. He was out in a field somewhere and this deer comes busting through the treeline, clearly distressed and run off it's legs. He said he could hear dogs baying and barking behind her. She stopped in the field in front of him, terrified of what was before and behind her. Finally, he said she came to him, and put her head on his chest, like "HELP ME...." He drove the dogs away, and she calmly left.

    I guess we're all animals.
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    i didn't know you guys were ENTPs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by digesthisickness View Post
    i didn't know you guys were ENTPs.
    Point taken. We're clogging up the thread, Run!
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    As I wrote in another thread, ENTP's start hugging when drunk. They come out of nowhere and strike. You never have enough time to hide from their attack. I't traumatic and leaves you wondering what the heck happened.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alcea rosea View Post
    As I wrote in another thread, ENTP's start hugging when drunk. They come out of nowhere and strike. You never have enough time to hide from their attack. I't traumatic and leaves you wondering what the heck happened.
    one, in all fairness, everyone does that.

    two, i'm just as likely to dropkick someone in the throat when i'm drunk.

    three, i'm just as likely to traumatize others with my love while sober.

    and with that, this test isn't valid.
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