SiFe is the dual of the ENTP. FeSi however can be too intense a relationship for anything close to develop. I know that the intensity especilaly rings true when you have a Ti subtype ENTP and an Si subtype ESFJ. The two can usually read eachother almost instantly, and they tend to jump to conclusions around eachother in a heartbeat. Usually, as soon as my eyes meet theirs, I know what they are all about.
ESFJs move towards others way too quickly. I've talked with one online maybe about a year-and-a-half ago, and her meaningless affection (peppered with "hottie" and "cutie" along with emoticons she used but had no clue over what they meant) was very smothering and fake. Although this particular ESFJ could have been the Fe subtype.
I popped her bubble by saying that I was married and I made her feel guilty. I needed to ward off the predator somehow.
My roommate has picked up an interest in astronomical alignments... He kept me up half the night working my program only to see it disprove an idea in his head. Now I want to re-open my math books and rerun the calulations myself incase the program is not being accurate enough.
Never a dull moment...
Dreams are best served manifest and tangible.
INFP, 6w7, IEI
I accept no responsibility, what so ever, for the fact that I exist; I do, however, accept full responsibility for what I do while I exist.
If you ask him to do something or to stop doing something, chances are he will escalate that exact behavior just to be perverse, because his first reaction is that you're trying to control him. The more sincere you are with your request, the more he'll show you he doesn't give a happy damn, you are not the boss of him!
The only thing I have ever found to make mine stop doing the bad thing was to shun him completely, and that only worked, I think, because he has had someone else get fed up and leave him, so he realizes it could actually happen. It took about four hours, and then he approached me and HE TOLD ME WHY I WAS MAD AT HIM. Aha, moment of truth, that he knows I know he knows and was escalating on purpose. So anyway he came clean for a split second and it was enough for me to reset and go on.
He's got about 10 girlfriends, btw. One real one, and the rest he swears with big innocent eyes are "just friends." Yeah right. But he gets away with it.
I once lied to a girl so I didn't have to tell her the real reason I didn't want to be with her. I would rather look like and be the bad guy than hurt someone's feelings unnecessarily because they do not meet some standard I have. Shitty? Yes. I just could not see getting by without explaining.
"Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."