I didn't play games intentionally. And yes I would like a yes or no response. Heck I have an ex who put me through a wringer and when he asked me if I wanted to get back with him, I said no. I said I did not feel that way about him. I suppose I could have felt amusement at the tables being turned or been really cold or left him hanging but I answered honestly, and also tried to be delicate when I rejected him. In fact whenever I've rejected anyone I've been direct and delicate when I could be.
So I suppose I was seeing things from my perspective, and not seeing the point of being overly vengeful toward someone. If he isn't interested then say so if he is then say so...
And im sorry you hate your mom. Maybe the intj doesn't feel the same pull. Oan though he did tell me on many ocassions that he does not want to date a girl like him. He likes girls that are different from him and he did tell me that he liked me(though that was back in August) so I'm assuming that he doesn't hate me or that I didn't fake a chemistry.
He may never respond. If he doesn't by the end of the month I will move on and chalk it up as a lesson learned.