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    Senior Member Cality's Avatar
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    Default guys who are testing intellectually potential mates to get to know them

    Hi, I am wondering what type is the most drawn to test intellectually potential mates. I met 2 guys (1 past date, 1 potential date) with who the first conversations where completly intellectual about sharing opinions with deep argumentation in long long long mails. They are drawn to complete, deep argumentations and admire people able to keep on agrumentating with them. I feel some NTJness.
    They are more sensitive to the ideas than the way to express them.

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    All potential dating should be done in that manner. It's best to be sure of compatibility before even considering emotional involvement and obligation of time or resources.

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    All potential dating should be done in that manner. It's best to be sure of compatibility before even considering emotional involvement and obligation of time or resources.


    *knock knock* Anyone in there?

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    I once told a man to run his own background check and submit it to me along with his mbti type code before our first date... true story

    Why not throw in an IQ and a blood sample?

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    I make all potential mates read Atlas Shrugged. If they can't trudge through it they obviously haven't got the commitment-potential to the life of misery I represent.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mozzes View Post
    I make all potential mates read Atlas Shrugged. If they can't trudge through it they obviously haven't got the commitment-potential to the life of misery I represent.
    Oh dear...if someone made me read that (even though I've read it once, so basically read it again) I think I'd end up on the evening news like that guy who chopped his wife up and dropped her pieces off at a local park. I guess you could say the relationship wouldn't really work out.
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    I can feel some attraction for women intellectually challenging, but I see compatibility as much more important. After all, I can be the "mind" in a relation, and I can already find challenging minds among my friends. Also, a woman who tries to show herself to potential mates as totally serious is enogh to make me go somewhere else. If you are such a thinker, you can show it in other ways.

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    Yes, if they test as intellectual, they likely go in the 'no' pile.
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    The Jeffster has a No pile?? Nuh uh!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeffster View Post
    Yes, if they test as intellectual, they likely go in the 'no' pile.
    Pffftt...SP's


    On a return note, I don't think I would test anyone at the start, but for long term, having some sort of understanding I believe is very important. In short: I like N's.

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