Im involved with an INTp (male) i'm an ESTp (female). I sometimes think he has issues that he doesn't quite open up about completely, he hasnt talked about things in much detail...but he drinks a lot. He has told me about certain events in his life which have been extreemly tragic...but very matter of factly. I think they affect him deeply, and I really want to help him. I dont want to change him, but I want to shed some positivity in his life. I really care about this person. He has a tendancy of telling me how he feels about shit through music a lot.