Originally Posted by birdseye
I think your INTJ friend is much more smarter than to go after “winning” instead of “learning”.
I, as an INTj, have a court in my head, I question every idea and each word of it.
And this court is very legal so it doesn’t make a difference if the founder of the idea is you or even me.
No matter what my goal is, the first step is always to understand the idea.
I’m always thinking of things, .. it’s a series of results I get when I round the ideas at every corner, and test them in my lab in ever possible ways.
No one will understand what I mean if I speak up my mind, or even worse, they’ll misunderstood and judge me stupidly.
That’s why if I ever speak of my thoughts, it means it worths it, and if it was to someone else, it means I actually care for that person..
I want him/her to know the truth as far as I know.
You may question every word I say, I choose them carefully.. so never go away unless you understand what I say, just ask for me to show me you want it.. so I know it worth it. ; )