My anger is colder than ice, for all means and purposes, I wouldn't mind or care if my 'enemies' died, it's not emotional, it's cold and rational.
My happiness isn't emotional either. It simply is, like a stream of water doesn't need to be cold or warm to exist.
I don't exploit people and situation, that would imply a moral judgement, a choice to be dishonnest. I geniunely seek and see what my interest are and don't see the point of using some meaningless external reference as a model, a reason to act. but in my interactions I probably often bring more than any person who think they are being generous when they really are just paying in whatever currency for people's love and attention.
My behavior is a constant test of others' capacity to adapt and surprise, I give and share with the gifted and tend to take more than I give from the weak, unable to adapt; from the unjust and the philosophically cowardly - hiding behind religions, concepts they don't grasp, other people. Getting control over their lives by letting themselves be controlled.
I'm never aggressive. Aggression is violence, violence is the way of the weak. Langage and mind is on the other hand the basis of the human social structure. Every social structure in the end give people positions, creates leaders and followers.
What I get I win fairly, it's up to the loser to realise that if they expect to get love, attention and social status they must accept to face people for whom this is all a funny game. This isn't cruelty, it's just how the game is played. We all want the prize, therefore we all have to accept the rules. And what's done by the rules can in no way be considered as violence.
We're all the results of millions of years of biological evolution and thousands of years of social evolution. What survived is what works. What works is ultimately, what is right.
Wether it's what we call types, differences between male and female behaviors, the will to power or social inequalities.