Starting a new thread because someone asked me too.
It's my second date with an INTJ tonight and I need your advice so I can completely over analyze the situation.
I met her at a bar. She's an illustrations student who's a few years younger than me. She seemed to have this assumption that I was some douche bag pick up artist until she realized how socially retarded I was. She seemed to enjoy this fact. I had a lot of fun last time chipping away at her cold, judging, cynical exterior and cracking open that warm, gooey Fi that she was reluctant to show. She's a lot more responsive and enthusiastic over text messages now.
She seems to hate neediness so I know straight away we're on the same wavelength and probably shouldn't too concerned over not texting or phoning her for a day or two. (Last girlfriend was an ESFP, total, total, change in battle strategy here.)
Would you say you're low maintenance partners?
Am I right to not worry about being too aloof and taking things slow for the sake of building trust first?