I do get the "fixed" thing. Like we attract to those that we feel can benefit from what we have to offer. I attract to NTs cuz I know I can help them in the feelings department. And Js attract to me- cuz they can help me in everything I screw up in my life and procrastinate.
As for the "hating"- can you elaborate?
It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. ~e.e. cummings
I find that I always get into relationships with two types of women:
1) The Type that act like they hate you.
2) The Type that need to be "fixed."
Is this common among other INTJers?
I think it's common for some men, regardless of type, especially the fixing thing. I'm not quite sure what makes someone want to keep getting involved with a project person, I can only imagine it would be very exhausting and not very satisfying since they never get fixed.
I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.