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    I find that I always get into relationships with two types of women:
    1) The Type that act like they hate you.
    2) The Type that need to be "fixed."
    Is this common among other INTJers?

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    All wimmen needs fixing..

    Men need a fix...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Triforce View Post
    All wimmen needs fixing..

    Men need a fix...
    I'm not sure what this means, but thanks.

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    I do get the "fixed" thing. Like we attract to those that we feel can benefit from what we have to offer. I attract to NTs cuz I know I can help them in the feelings department. And Js attract to me- cuz they can help me in everything I screw up in my life and procrastinate.

    As for the "hating"- can you elaborate?
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    I run far away from fixer uppers and fixers. This is SPARTA!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaitie View Post
    I find that I always get into relationships with two types of women:
    1) The Type that act like they hate you.
    2) The Type that need to be "fixed."
    Is this common among other INTJers?
    I think it's common for some men, regardless of type, especially the fixing thing. I'm not quite sure what makes someone want to keep getting involved with a project person, I can only imagine it would be very exhausting and not very satisfying since they never get fixed.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    "Don't marry a man to reform him - that's what reform schools are for."
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    my guess is that kaitie is a girl.

    why you interested in chicks that act like they hate you tho? you deserve better than that.

    edit: haha just realized i have no reason to assume that first part. never mind.
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    Yeah- that's why I'm wondering if the hate is really LOVE. Such a fine line .... haha (When opposite types collide - sometimes it's fireworks disguised by hate.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Triforce View Post
    All wimmen needs fixing..

    Men need a fix...
    To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing.
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