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[ENTJ] ENTJ Women: are you "sexual beings" (i.e., prone to slutty behavior)?

baccheion

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I just keep noticing that ENTJ women tend to put out (what's the proper term?) a lot. I don't know the details of this, or if it makes sense, or if it's just pure lust, but I keep seeing it happen. Any idea what drives this behaviour, and do the women have problems reconciling this the next day (given their personality)? Also, why am I not getting any of this action? Well, not so much that, but what types are they typically going after.. the usual playboys, or some other type? What causes this to happen, pure thinks-like-a-man hormones, or are they particularly excited by a certain form of behaviour? Does this fit you ENTJ women, or am I witnessing isolated incidents?
 

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Mmmm. I think seeing sexual and slutty as synonymous as far as sexual behaviour in women is concerned is problematic, but I understand your point, but it depends on what you mean by 'put out'. I can think of several reasons why an ENTJ woman might do it.

1. Using sex appeal to get their way or have an advantage over someone -it may be morally dubious, but the ends justify the means for many ENTJ's. It's just a practical tactic sometimes, and their extroverted nature makes it easier.

2. ENTJ women, like myself, may ignore the sort of stigma about promiscuity that makes it acceptable for men and disrespectful in women. I don't mean this a hardcore feminist argument, as much as it may seem illogical to them. Hey, so what if they're looking for a quick fling and a good time.

3. They are extroverted thinkers. They can socialise and flirt with a person without there being any emotional connection. It could just be a bit of harmless fun.

4. If by put out, you mean dress in a sexually provocative way, it would be because as extroverts they are more comfortable with standing out and having that sort of attention, and are (generalisation) more likely to put on feminine clothes and makeup than an INTJ or INTP.

Reconciling? What, feeling sorry or guilty? Probably not, as long as they enjoyed themselves and knew the person was single.As far as morning after regrets are concerned, I don't think an ENTJ would be thinking 'oh no people will think I'm a whore' as much as 'I don't fucking know this guy, he could be riddled with STD's. Off to the Doctor's'

As for which type we'd go after.... entirely depends. Again, I don't think the majority of ENTJ women would be really flirtatious with a stranger, or at least if they were they probably wouldn't be recognised as an ENTJ. I personally would stick to silly innuendos and things like that, rather than just grinding on a guy's crotch (not that I'd go anywhere like a club or disco where that happens). I think most ENTJ women would certainly be classy about, in their own unique way. Again, of course, there's a large portion of ENTJ women who prefer not to be flirtatious or 'put out', I have a friend who I know certainly wouldn't. So it depends.

I hope this wasn't unclear.
 

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Does this fit you ENTJ women, or am I witnessing isolated incidents?
There is nothing of MBTI functions that would imply any type being oversexed. Neither Te, Ti, Fe, Fi nor other functions lead to this.

Te dominant women may be more confident in themselves and their sexuality, and thus more open than a shy introverted feeling type. But in this case you would see the same from ESTJ women and other logical women. Would that fit your observations?

Also have you looked into instincts? The ENTJ women you're meeting may be sx-dominant: SX, SO, SP Instincts
 

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Considering how ENTJ women constitute less than 1% of the population, how many ENTJ women have you observed, to come to this conclusion?

That said, Se-tert might account for the experiential lust for life for some, although as a near sapio/demi, this isn't my MO. Monogamous relationship partner sex only.
 

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I can't believe anyone is taking that OP seriously...:shock:
 

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I just keep noticing that ENTJ women tend to put out (what's the proper term?) a lot. I don't know the details of this, or if it makes sense, or if it's just pure lust, but I keep seeing it happen. Any idea what drives this behaviour, and do the women have problems reconciling this the next day (given their personality)? Also, why am I not getting any of this action? Well, not so much that, but what types are they typically going after.. the usual playboys, or some other type? What causes this to happen, pure thinks-like-a-man hormones, or are they particularly excited by a certain form of behaviour? Does this fit you ENTJ women, or am I witnessing isolated incidents?

I would rephrase what you're saying as "I know what I want, when I want it."

I used to be like what you're describing I guess...

I would act like that when I was around someone playing hard to get. I like to be chaser....not the chasee, and I like to take initiative *shrugs*

And emotions sometimes have nothing to do with it. It happens when you're caught up in Te-Se
 

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ENTJ Women: are you "sexual beings" (i.e., prone to slutty behavior)?
Why am I not getting any of this action?
Maybe because you unconsciously equate being a sexual being with being a slut?

 

baccheion

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Maybe because you unconsciously equate being a sexual being with being a slut?


There's a reason I put it in quotes (because being a sexual being is one thing, but what I saw happening was another), but maybe I'm wrong about them being the latter, in general, and they are actually the former (not like I care either way, just wondering what's what). Hence why I asked.
 

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There's a reason I put it in quotes (because being a sexual being is one thing, but what I saw happening was another), but maybe I'm wrong about them being the latter, in general, and they are actually the former (not like I care either way, just wondering what's what). Hence why I asked.
Can you describe what you perceive as the slutty behaviours of these ENTJ women?
 

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Can you describe what you perceive as the slutty behaviours of these ENTJ women?

I hear they like to wear clothes that shows their calves.
 

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Hah! The only ENTJ female I know is very religious and really resists most sexual experiences. I fully realize this is probably not the norm, just thought I would share my experience.
 

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I just keep noticing that ENTJ women tend to put out (what's the proper term?) a lot. I don't know the details of this, or if it makes sense, or if it's just pure lust, but I keep seeing it happen. Any idea what drives this behaviour, and do the women have problems reconciling this the next day (given their personality)? Also, why am I not getting any of this action? Well, not so much that, but what types are they typically going after.. the usual playboys, or some other type? What causes this to happen, pure thinks-like-a-man hormones, or are they particularly excited by a certain form of behaviour? Does this fit you ENTJ women, or am I witnessing isolated incidents?


Research shows that extremely cold and extremely caring / warm people tend to be promiscious (the moderate ones are least promiscious). So if the ENTJ is has an undeveloped Fe or tests really high in thinking versus feeling than they could more likely be promiscious.

Sources:

The Promiscuous Personality - | - Science of Relationships
 

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I just keep noticing that ENTJ women tend to put out (what's the proper term?) a lot. I don't know the details of this, or if it makes sense, or if it's just pure lust, but I keep seeing it happen. Any idea what drives this behaviour, and do the women have problems reconciling this the next day (given their personality)? Also, why am I not getting any of this action? Well, not so much that, but what types are they typically going after.. the usual playboys, or some other type? What causes this to happen, pure thinks-like-a-man hormones, or are they particularly excited by a certain form of behaviour? Does this fit you ENTJ women, or am I witnessing isolated incidents?
This thread could also be called 'which personality will get me laid the fastest' :wink:
I don't know how to answer this the right way but sexual liberation has a lot more to do with upbringing than personality even, with many individuals equating sex to whatever they saw growing up and treating it as such. If you were expecting a straight forward answer, this isn't exactly the right topic for it. I would equate the open minded explorer personalities with more sexual experimentation, and the unhealthy and seeking external validation types with bad experiences but those are such loose generalizations.
If you're looking for an easy answer on how to 'get in on the action', the answer is be the right person to attract those kinds of girls. There's no real personality that will just fall in your lap.
 

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I just keep noticing that ENTJ women tend to put out (what's the proper term?) a lot. I don't know the details of this, or if it makes sense, or if it's just pure lust, but I keep seeing it happen. Any idea what drives this behaviour, and do the women have problems reconciling this the next day (given their personality)? Also, why am I not getting any of this action? Well, not so much that, but what types are they typically going after.. the usual playboys, or some other type? What causes this to happen, pure thinks-like-a-man hormones, or are they particularly excited by a certain form of behaviour? Does this fit you ENTJ women, or am I witnessing isolated incidents?


First of all I noticed women will vehemently deny sexist claims even if its true. So asking women if they are promiscuous won't work lmao. Of course they will deny it. In my experience statistics speak louder than one women's opinion. But in general, you cannot make an assumption just on your experience. You need a good sample group like of a 1,000 women for this type of question.
 
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