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    I can easily say what I don't like (bottom line), but trying to define what I do like is difficult, because I know, that I might like it now and later on dislike it or it could be taken out of context and so I keep thinking on how to explain in which situation I might actually like it.

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    I don't know. I've never met an INTJ that I hate. They're cool. Or perhaps I haven't met enough of them.

    Maybe there's something to do with their austere posture? Considering ESFPs the easiest and quickest to like.
    But honestly, INTJs I know are pretty fluffy, especially female ones. I don't know why people would miss that.

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    I adore INTJs, but they're a total mindfuck to deal with. Biggest heartbreakers around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dyslexxie View Post
    Biggest heartbreakers around.
    Can you be more specific ? (I am really curious)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Virtual ghost View Post
    Can you be more specific ? (I am really curious)
    Totally based on personal experiences but I always fall for INTJs and they're always too cold and distant to ever really reciprocate in the way I would want it reciprocated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dyslexxie View Post
    Totally based on personal experiences but I always fall for INTJs and they're always too cold and distant to ever really reciprocate in the way I would want it reciprocated.

    Well, based on your type I would surely give you a chance.


    Anyway if this is a problem that continues and you really like INTJs I suggest that you try with INTJs that are not stereotypical 5s. (however I am not sure if you would see such individuals as INTJs)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Virtual ghost View Post
    Well, based on your type I would surely give you a chance.


    Anyway if this is a problem that continues and you really like INTJs I suggest that you try with INTJs that are not stereotypical 5s. (however I am not sure if you would see such individuals as INTJs)
    8 or wing 8 would be a nice fit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chubber View Post
    8 or wing 8 would be a nice fit.

    Actually 8 fix could be enough.


    five with an eight fix:
    least intellectual, though perhaps the most mentally intense.
    unsettled by occasional fits of temper,
    sudden outbursts. affixed to notions of power;
    attitude of resigned realist. quietly guarded and
    insistent, may put others ill at ease.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dyslexxie View Post
    Totally based on personal experiences but I always fall for INTJs and they're always too cold and distant to ever really reciprocate in the way I would want it reciprocated.


    From what I've seen, MBTI appears to correlate at least a bit to "Love Languages". Home | The 5 Love Languages® | Improving Millions of Relationships… One Language at a Time. It's the same idea at any rate: different people communicating on different levels, and thus not completely appreciating each other.

    As a general principle, I've noticed that most people tend to look for love on their own terms and seem to instinctively object to the idea that they might need to adapt to and cooperate with another human being. It's kind of ironic: we're quite happy to adjust to our friends' and family's needs and wants, but no, our romantic partners have to conform to our needs and wants.
    An argument is two people sharing their ignorance.

    A discussion is two people sharing their understanding, even when they disagree.
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    Hahaha. I am always slightly paranoid that IXTJs especially INTJs are going to pick apart everything I say and eat me alive with their mad argumentation skillz But then they usually tolerate me... and occasionally like me...

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