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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
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    Just tell him that you cannot give him/her the money because you need it to feel secure. So only if he knows a way to have a cake and eat it too, he can have it; otherwise he can stop arguing. Also, switch the blame: "I have made up my mind. Please stop making me feel so miserable about it."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicodemus View Post
    Just tell him that you cannot give him/her the money because you need it to feel secure. So only if he knows a way to have a cake and eat it too, he can have it; otherwise he can stop arguing. Also, switch the blame: "I have made up my mind. Please stop making me feel so miserable about it."
    He is not a good baker so that is a good point.

    I have taken your advice on my reply text to him, pulling the sad INFP card into the mix: "Yes, I would appreciate that as it makes me feel bad."

    Excellent advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    He is not a good baker so that is a good point.

    I have taken your advice on my reply text to him, pulling the sad INFP card into the mix: "Yes, I would appreciate that as it makes me feel bad."

    Excellent advice.
    It's the equivalent to the senza smiley:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicodemus View Post
    It's the equivalent to the senza smiley:
    That is very senzaesque.

    My true emotion is more: than but I supposed will counter his more effectively.

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    Quote Originally Posted by earthtrekker1775 View Post
    We wait for the sigh of relief, then constrict after you exhale. Oldest technique in the book.
    (and we know you know, but it still works, so we don't care)
    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    my reply text to him, pulling the sad INFP card into the mix: "Yes, I would appreciate that as it makes me feel bad."
    The sad INFP card... the counterpart to the INTJ constriction. Hehehe.

    Just be sure to use the force only for true good, young padawan.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mia. View Post
    The sad INFP card... the counterpart to the INTJ constriction. Hehehe.

    Just be sure to use the force only for true good, young padawan.

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    Quote Originally Posted by earthtrekker1775 View Post
    (and we know you know, but it still works, so we don't care)


    so true...

    although, i think this kinda goes for manipulation in general...

    we just have our own brand/flavor...

    (also, sometimes they have no idea...)


    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    And also because I know that if I did I would have none of the clever subtext that NiTe yields and instead it will be a mace blow to the face delivered from the Witch King.
    I know this is the "Ask an INTJ" thread, so this is kinda in reverse, but would you mind expanding on this?

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    INTP's and INTJ's seem to brush against each other the wrong way more often than not. Every encounter I've had, or seen, seems to spiral into some sort of conflict, however fluffy or well meant it may be. And although the setting is often saved by some form of mutual respect, it seems almost impossible to fully reach the same consensus on any issue, even though our seperate opinions are actual not that different from eachother. But it's often the subtle differences that seem to be of utmost importance in defending each owns perpectives on things. It's like there is a certain unspoken rivalry between the two types.

    Have you noticed/experienced this as well, and if so, what is your take on it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    Have you noticed/experienced this as well...
    Yes.

    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    ...and if so, what is your take on it?
    You guys suck.

    (actually, not you; I kinda like you.)

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    Why is it that (male) INTJ's seem to have greater difficulty typing their (female) ladiez?
    Esp when they seem so certain with typing others. Hmm?
    "We knew he was someone who had a tragic flaw, that's where his greatness came from"

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