OK, here's an INTJ question. I think one of my boys is an INTJ and he sees absolutely no value in being "nice" to people, (although he can't stand to see animals mistreated). Is there any way to get him to value being nice to people, or is this a lost cause?
Also, do I ignore the eye rolling, "I'm smarter than you," attitudes, or do I have consequences for it? I generally go with the consequences, teaching him not to be rude, but I am wondering if ignoring it would be the better tactic.