Hi all you ENTP ladies out there,
What's the best way to ask for your number? (Or, stay connected to you at the end after first meeting you?)
Context: I am an INFJ man, 31, and am totally crazy about you. You are the bees knees, the best thing that could ever happen to us guys, or at least this guy. If I'm lucky enough to be introduced to you, or if you somehow enter my physical space, I can usually say something awkard or cheesy enough to start a conversation with you. The conversation flows really easily because of the Ni/Ne and my excitement in meeting you.
HOWEVER. once I sense that there is chemistry... I basically do.. nothing, and hope that you will be aggressive or clever enough to make something happen, or basically pray for serendipity to drop you in my lap.
Once, this actually worked, where my INTP male roommate got the number of an ENTP woman at a bar who we both had great chemistry with, they went on one date and remained friends, and then she basically hunted me down through him until she got what she wanted
Anyway, she had to leave town for grad school and now I can't imagine being with anyone but an ENTP woman.
So before you say, "Dude, just ask for her number" -- on this forum and in multiple other places, I've read that ENTP ladies seem to prefer
a) if a guy is shy or even somewhat socially awkward
b) if a guy is not a player type
c) if a guy is first friends with her
The above would suggest that an aggressive or direct approach would be kind of a turn off, and anyway it's not in my INFJ nature to drop lines like my INTP roommate does with incredible ease. But if it's absolutely necessary, I'll suck it up and do what has to be done, or at least try.