I consider the most opposite people to me to be SJs, and yes, they are everywhere. It is often not interactions with individuals that I find grating, as many are pleasant, interesting, etc, but it's a pervasive mentality. It is not even about many basic values or interests, etc, as I can have much in common with these people being that so much of that is generational, cultural, etc. It is often an interpretation of reality, which seems how Ne & Si are at odds (for me). It is the assumed assumption of certain things about reality as immovable vs seeing the choice in perspective & how that causes a particular reality, and then being irritated when there is refusal to see other perspectives & how reality could be different. I also feel a clash with Te & Fe mentalities as far as what is important in a situation or how to determine value. A lot of stuff people get hung up on looks petty and arbitrary to me, and I guess I look irreverent to them.
"Charlotte sometimes dreams a wall around herself. But it's always with love - So much love it looks like everything else. Charlotte Sometimes - So far away, glass sealed and pretty." - The Cure