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    why do you guys think he may be married???

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    Thank you all for your great advice... As an INFJ , I value authencity .... especially regarding emotions and not to sound pompous, I never been WRONG about a man's romantic feelings for me!... but Im trying to be open to other's opinion, do you guys think he was not sincere about his feelings (initially or at the end) ??? I know the info does not give me any direction to take action but just wondering.....unsure:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darya View Post
    why do you guys think he may be married???
    Ahhhhhhhhhhh....I think it has to do with the fact that a few days after your initial meeting...a few days...he was shouting to you on the phone that 'he can't do this'...and 'he is sorry for being an asshole' (???). Granted he just had a heart attack...but no one really does this. If you have only known someone for a few days...you can just 'lose their number' so to speak. Or if it was me...I would use the whole 'heart attack' thing as an excuse to get out of the 'relationship'...but people don't act the way this guy acts after a few days. It seems like he felt guilty for something...and I'm not so sure that something was you.

    None of your story sounds weird to you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darya View Post
    Thank you all for your great advice... As an INFJ , I value authencity .... especially regarding emotions and not to sound pompous, I never been WRONG about a man's romantic feelings for me!... but Im trying to be open to other's opinion, do you guys think he was not sincere about his feelings (initially or at the end) ??? I know the info does not give me any direction to take action but just wondering.....unsure:
    He is an emotionally fucked up INTP.

    He doesn't understand his emotions.

    In fact, in a certain respect, he barely even really has his own.

    (Sorry, that last part is me bringing in my anti-Fe bias, but I think there's some truth to it.)

    (If any function is related to personal emotions, it's Fi, which is the demonic [i.e., very last] function for an INTP.)

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    Yes starry i seemed strange but i dont mind weirdness...
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    he also called himself an ass hole the first night we talked bc he said due to nature of his job, he is not the best man for relationships, yet i continued,... May be I am to blamed too..

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    ;(
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    I heard soo much about INTP's issues with romantic relationships..... so why you also read in some literature about their loyality, pure and honest expression of love and great compablity between INFJs and INTPs!!!?????? HELP

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    realistic yet optimistic reply thanks redbone

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