I tend to have troubles with strong Es and strong Js but that's because I'm annoyed easily at people who can keep things organized and is always on the go and talking non stop. And really strong Js if I live with them, I look like a slob next to my INFJ room mate (I am a slob, but she just makes me look worse). I can deal with strong Es I just need a break from them sooner then weaker Es and Is
Are ENTJs really that interested in establishing rules? I have always been under the impression that they just give commands that best fit the situation, rather than focus on set guidelines.
In my experience, ENTJ most often offer very good suggestions, not orders. They usually have some background information or something else valuable that'll make their suggestions good, avoiding the need to order people around.
If the one has an inferior negotiating position with an ENTJ, the ENTJ may often act as "The System", enforcing the harsh consequences of the other's inferiority. For example, a subordinate demanding more wage, despite having no bargaining power. ENTJ much resembles ENTP in this regard.
I still find ENTJ's way nicer than what they have with many other types. ENTJ usually think globally and aren't corrupted from power.
I have the odd issue with Es of all kinds, but ESFPs have the most likelihood of getting on my goat. I can watch them on the big screen, no problem, but spend a night in their company? I get the feeling they don't like NTs either. I feel like telling them quietly to stop fucking smiling; why are they always so happy? And no, I don't wanna go to the party and I don't want to have SP *fun*.
Most Sensors annoy me, but I also have to agree with an earlier poster that people of all types eventually irritate me. In small doses I am fine but spending too much time with anyone can turn me into a nasty piece of work. I require time to myself.