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    Quote Originally Posted by Mane View Post
    so yes, it matters: maybe her ENTP is spanish, greek, italian, turkish or even israeli, maybe she is but is too introverted to be comfortable with the gestures of her own culture... we don't know.
    I don't know. I'm aware of cultural differences, but it was clear that she -- at the very least -- read it as stepping into her private space, since she read it in a particular way, which was confirmed by various other examples that she also read similarly (according to her).
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    I'm French he's English it was flirtation. He could have just cuddled the cat

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    I don't know. I'm aware of cultural differences, but it was clear that she -- at the very least -- read it as stepping into her private space, since she read it in a particular way, which was confirmed by various other examples that she also read similarly (according to her).
    i see your point and:
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    he's English it was flirtation.
    ok, that pretty much answers that question.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ness View Post
    I'm French he's English it was flirtation. He could have just cuddled the cat
    Have you talked to the cat?
    (maybe the cat's mad at him too!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    Have you talked to the cat?
    (maybe the cat's mad at him too!)
    that's brilliant! @Ness - put them on the spot. when you all socialize together - with him, his ex and their friends, ask them why they aren't together. ...there's going to be an answer, worms might come out of the can, and it might help him clear his head in either direction.

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    Well it kind irrelevant now, but I would think from his point view he would be torn between feelings of hurt and resentment over what she did and feelings of loyalty and love which are difficult to just witch off, when the person is still in your life.

    There is also the difficult situation of having to build a new friendship based relationship, if that’s is all he wants

    This must be very consuming for him. For the 5 months when she was no where to be seen he was doing very well and even developed an interest in me.

    The ex effect is like gravity its hard to ignore and more so when they are everywhere you go texting several time a day.

    Although he reads like text book ENTP MBTi is of Corse only the very base of person, what’s to be noted about this guy, is that he does suffer from social anxiety and so the people that make he feel at ease and except him as his, like me are very dear to him.

    Also a little unusual for ENTP is that he settled into a serous relationship very young and spent 7 years with that girl. Now approaching 30 his for the first time in his life he is single and open to new opportunities. I don't think he was flirting with me the sake of it at all, I would think he genuinely was interested there was a definite spark and we are very compatible (most ENTP and INFJ are) plus we have lot in common we seem to fit. However I don't expect that interest to remain all the time that
    1. I’m ignoring it and 2. His ex is on his case and his life

    As for me ignoring it for so long well that’s my fault for thinking too much and I’m sure his un-reciprocated efforts would have dented his ego

    I would think an ENTP in this scenario would quickly switch off and move Ne Ti are somewhat emotionally detached and also keen on new opportunities. Point 2. Well that’s exactly why I didn't act.
    It’s a very tight nit group of friends they have been toghter since high school and are more like family. Having come into the scene via has best friends and moral social 'glue' of the group the ENFJ he may at the moment see more as part of the friend gang. This is still an honour its self

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