I hate the fact that INTJs don't care if they're annoying the hell out of you.
I hate that they only compliment or encourage you towards the ideas what they want you to be, and could care less about the things you're proud of.
I hate that under every apology is pity...they're not apologizing because they believe they did something wrong. They're apologizing because they know *you* think they did, and they pity your inferior intellect.:rolleyes2:
I hate how they feel free to ignore you all day long, but honestly expect everyone to drop whatever they're doing to listen to their (self-perceived) brilliant, amazing ideas.
I love having them around to do crap for you. I hate that they continue to hover and try to fix everything you do after you ask them to leave.
My dh is an INTJ. INTJ/INFJ relationships. Oy vey.