My boyfriend is an NT. We have been dating for 14 months. In the past there have been times when I haven't heard from him for a day or two. But this week, other than seeing him on Monday I haven't really heard from him. I called him Tuesday and texted Wednesday with no reply. Then yesterday I texted him and asked if he wanted to have dinner last night but he declined saying things had been busy with work. I completely understand that his job is stressful sometimes. I also know that sometimes NT's need space. But how am I supposed to know what is going on if he doesn't communicate with me? I didn't try calling him last night and never repeatedly call if I call and he doesn't answer, but when is it okay to call with out seeming pushy? He has always told me that if something is bothering him he will tell me, but hasn't said anything.
I also think I possibly told him that I love him last weekend when we were drinking. If I bring up anything like saying I miss him or what he thinks of our situation all he says is cool. He has yet to say it to me, but does do alot of things for me. I'm not going to assume that that means he loves me, but I know he cares.
Sorry for this being all over the place, but I guess I just have alot on my mind. I would appreciate any opinions or advice.