I think the fact that you perceive ENTJs to be evil and unfriendly as effing hilarious.
i think the reason why most people think that ENTJs are unfriendly is because of the way they interact with others. the way they speak especially.
i agree with you.i think ENTJs are extremely friendly. but 1 big issue they have is the lack of 'S' and 'F' in them. this is why when they speak they sounds as if, if you don't do what they tell you to do they will fire you(even though you don't work for him).
just because you are a Extrovert it doesn't mean you are the king of socializing. this is very apparent in ENTJs. and this is also the ENTJs Achilles.
their lack of 'S' ness makes them unable to interact like SP and SJs. you know the type of things you say just for saying it sakes cus its accepted and everyone does it, to break daily tensions built up by random events which put you at a awkward position with another person. well ENTJs have a hard time thinking how to react. this is due to the lack of S ness. not because they are unfriendly.
even INTXs have this problem, much more than to the standard of incompetence of a ENTJ. but they are INTROVERTS. they don't mingle that much and wouldn't want to. and don't care.
how about the ENTPs-
they are just good actors.
even NFs have socializing issues -
but they have a strong F function. they know how to talk in a polite manner. and they don't feel(and you shouldn't) embarrassed by it. showing feelings and being polite.
but NTs have a huge issue when it comes to socializing(i am not talking abt business)-
INTXs don't care.
ENTPs fake it. or learn it. the Greek verb bullshit translates to ENTPs
ENTJs suffer, and people think they are unfriendly!
Anyway, while I'm supposed to be doing homework, I'll give you a serious answer.
The only way you're going to figure this out is if you compare the evidence.
"P" and "J" aren't functions but are a part of the shorthand that abbreviates for the functions.
ENTJ: Te, Ni, Se, Fi
ENTP: Ne, Ti, Fe, Si
Generally, an ENTJ will seek to order things outside of them to suit a vision of what they think will 'work better.'
ENTPs are more suited towards information gathering.
It really has nothing to do with the appearance of 'chaos' (which, if they are ENTJ, there's likely a method to their madness) or outgoing and friendliness.
Isn't the problem with every introverted function 'chaos'?
And, if ENTP's are extroverted, information gathering will not be the goal but the instrument; like it is for the ENTJ (and every information gathering extrovert).
Information gathering for the ENTJ: 'how do I order things'
Information gathering for the ENTP: ?
Information gathering for the ENTJ: 'how do I order things I have now in a functionally efficient way'
Information gathering for the ENTP: 'how do i connect concepts and ideas I get from any concept\context association to one another (to generate new ideas and concepts I will then ...)'
Expression of the post modern paradox : "For the love of god, religions are so full of shit"
Theory is always superseded by Fact...
... In theory.
“I’d hate to die twice. It’s so boring.” Richard Feynman's last recorded words
"Great is the human who has not lost his childlike heart." Mencius (Meng-Tse), 4th century BCE
I distrust ENTPs. If you cross an ENTJ, we will stab you in the front most of the time. An ENTP will stab you in the back. I'm actually cautious around people who I think are ENTPs. I also waste time analyzing their words and behaviors do determine a threat level and developing a strategy to deal with them. ENTJs generally over expose themselves, giving ENTPs easy targets to hit.
I suspect ENTJs would make great business leaders, while ENTPs would make great political leaders.