InvisibleJim
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So if fairness is a part of "credibility loss" in your eyes - people aren't fair to each other, aren't honest, don't evenly apply the rules to everyone - what do you think could cause other people to lose credibility in you? Do you feel you do anything that could contribute to this happening (here or anywhere really)?
Many things I'm sure. Of course the question there would be, why would I wish to do it differently? The answer is, I have no reason to do so.
I wasn't suggesting that it was a type-specific problem by any means; I was just wondering if you (and perhaps other INTJs) had particular strategies for nipping these situations in the bud before any sort of resentment starts building up.
Not really, you have to be careful. Some people, like Je doms EJs prefer you to be up front and direct. It is the nature of IJs to back off as a natural tendancy. It is very easy to get along, IJ to IJ. The only trick are P types who just wobble back and forward like drunks in the park; you can tell them but they'll hate you for it if they are E, or you can be ignore them but the I will just keep pounding at thee door. Replacing those roles is dangerous because they'll just argue with you.