First of all, this post is not meant be read provocation or anything like that. I am just trying to understand what I have discovered. And I am sure my fellow INTJ _should_ be ok with that
So, I am an INTJ. According to the test, my preferences are something like this:
I 75%, E 25%
N 67%, S 33%
T 75%, F 25%
J 67%, P 33%
When reading forum discussions regarding INTJs, I can't help wondering this: Are all other INTJs totally stubborn about being INTJ and never make use of their non-preferred functions?
I mean, most discussions I have read give me the impression that the INTJ are such proud of their natural virtues (which may be seen as flaws by others) that they never stop to think if they could develop the more "society-oriented" sides of them. This image of INTJs that I have perceived is far too often such strong that I even start to wonder whether I want to reveal my being INTJ at all now that I would then just risk getting a lot of prejudices from non-INTJ people...
It's not that I am not mature or that I am not proud of what I am. I definitely am (well, I guess shouldn't judge my matureness myself :P ). It's just that I surprinsingly often feel myself an outsider when reading INTJ discussions.
I apologize the rush I had when writing this, a fact that might have made my post more harsh than I meant to....