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    Quote Originally Posted by guesswho View Post
    My opinion:

    -You're over analyzing the issue because you're too involved in a relationship that isn't based on involvement
    -You made the thread hoping for an answer to all of this, an answer that will preferably fix things and uncomplicate this. But there's no easy fix. The MBTI has nothing do to with this.
    -He's a risk because he was with someone else right before you, so his emotional involvement is limited.

    You can't play games with him because you care too much, try talking to him. Communication is the key.
    Good sum up here.

    I think it's a bad idea to date someone who just got out of a LTR. I don't care what type someone is, no one can clear their head in a few days after spending years with someone else. If nothing else, I would be wary of anyone who can't be alone for awhile with themselves. I want someone to choose me, not choose "anything but the silence."

    I think the ops ENTP has made himself pretty clear. He may have feelings for her, but him moving away in a few months overrides the emotional involvement.

    And playing games with anyone is just such an immature thing to do. If you're mad, tell him, don't make him guess. Or play the "I won't kiss you back game." ugh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    Good sum up here.

    I think it's a bad idea to date someone who just got out of a LTR. I don't care what type someone is, no one can clear their head in a few days after spending years with someone else. If nothing else, I would be wary of anyone who can't be alone for awhile with themselves. I want someone to choose me, not choose "anything but the silence."
    All I can say is - Wow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Domino View Post
    There's a sorry lack of breasts in here.
    Best post in thread

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    For the record, I INFP's. One of my dearest friends is an INFP and he really is a great guy. Since I'm a woman, I have found through dating experience, that I'm more attracted to a personality that's equivalent or stronger than mine. That's a personal preference. I can see where an ENTP and INFP would work out very well, if both parties were mature. An immature ENTP + immature INFP = FAIL! One or both parties being immature will spoil it. I think that's what we're looking at here in this thread (see the original post for details :]).

    Quote Originally Posted by mal12345 View Post
    All I can say is - Wow.

    Have you ever thought about getting your own love advice talk show?
    I echo that.

    Quote Originally Posted by Saturned View Post
    I think the ops ENTP has made himself pretty clear. He may have feelings for her, but him moving away in a few months overrides the emotional involvement.

    And playing games with anyone is just such an immature thing to do. If you're mad, tell him, don't make him guess. Or play the "I won't kiss you back game." ugh.
    Amen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd Girl View Post
    For the record, I INFP's. One of my dearest friends is an INFP and he really is a great guy. Since I'm a woman, I have found through dating experience, that I'm more attracted to a personality that's equivalent or stronger than mine. That's a personal preference. I can see where an ENTP and INFP would work out very well, if both parties were mature. An immature ENTP + immature INFP = FAIL! I think that's what we may be looking at here in this thread (see the original post for details :] ).
    Agreed.

    I ENTPs too.

    *bakes math equation cookies for Nerd Girl*

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    Quote Originally Posted by mal12345 View Post
    All I can say is - Wow.

    Have you ever thought about getting your own love advice talk show?
    No, because then I would have to be the center of attention. /horror.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatsWhatHeSaid View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatsWhatHeSaid View Post
    Best post in thread
    However, the OP asked for an answer from ENTPs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mal12345 View Post
    However, the OP asked for an answer from ENTPs.
    Best =/= most responsive

    I liked your posts tho, and TG's.

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    Quote Originally Posted by spleen View Post
    Sorry to harp, but infps? Question: do you not think when you say "oh, but, like, we werent talking about you at all" that the entp you say that to doesnt see through that horrible defense in like, 0 seconds. Like, really? Really??

    I ask because my best friend has been saying crap like that to me for all 5 years Ive known her. She says it after she gives me her unsolicited advice on why my untraditionality is "not good" in some way, but she determines all that advice based on her monthly family's evaluative process on the state of my soul. And after hearing nerd girl knowing that her bf was talking to his mom about her, just brought it to the forefront of my mind.
    Are you talking about your friend denying she talked to her parents about you? I think it's the path of least resistance, going the indirect route, but maybe she needed reassurance that her thoughts were valid. I don't know the details about your situation, but her motivation is more likely driven by genuine concern. I say that because you called her a 'friend,' so I'm trusting your judgment there.

    Quote Originally Posted by spleen View Post
    *Wow, that is horrible. Hate when parents are turned into Personal Relationship Therapists.*
    I dont know if you could say that you were the Cause of the problems. You may have started them by not realizing those emotional cues as you say, but thats at the beginning of the relationship when you dont know the person and what their trigger points are, so, you just were acting like yourself, you didnt know how your actions were going to emotionally affect the person, so, you are way more likely to wrongfully gauge the degree of importance your actions were going to emotionally impact him, due to your percpective being rooted in Thinking more than Feeling. (And especially with an infp guy)
    True, there were a number of variables at play.

    Quote Originally Posted by spleen View Post
    If the infp really wanted to have a good relationship, its in their capacity to forgive, ignore and try to make the best of it. I think they are the emotionally strongest out of all types to remain optimistic about life and stuff like this.
    INFP's are well-equipped to be all of those things, but then as an Ne-dom, so are you. : )

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