When I've got the wubbiez, that person sees ALL the raw energy and silliness that no one else does. I'm fun, always smiling and laughing, and getting him to try new things with me.
Like the INFJ I've fallen for, after 5 months or so.
If I love someone, I will fight for them - ferociously. My BF told me he was being bullied/harrassed by his apartment neighbors for example - I knocked on the door, and with a few key words exchanged (no yelling, profanity or violence)...they learned a valuable lesson on S'ingTFU.
I will also do impractical things...my INFJ and I drove 3 hours on my motorcycle (leaving at 9pm on a worknight) just to find the ultimate spot to lie on the grass, watch the stars and philosophize until the sun came up. We both ended up calling in sick the next day. Though I don't make a habit of it!
Everyone else sees me as "ROOOOAR", he only sees "purrrr..."