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    Senior Member think2much's Avatar
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    Default obnoxious, immature, manchild?

    Almost everyone thinks I'm mature and very reserved. I do act very calm around acquaintances. When I start letting people in my life I'm emotinonally wreak, I can sense that people are annoyed and can see me as immature person. I don't know why I act this way, I just wanna see how far I can push them before they snap(and they do push me away).

    Was I doing this cause I was bored and kept myself entertain?

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    how the heck would we know?

    Trust works both ways. Why be friends with someone that wont show some positive reciprocation and respect?

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    I don't know why I act this way, I just wanna see how far I can push them before they snap(and they do push me away).
    Which one is it? Dont you know? Or are you being a prick on purpose?

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    Get to know people, bond starts forming, test the strength of the relationship, rope snaps, people fall away

    Something like that

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    one INTP i know very much enjoys provoking reactions in others. perhaps you relate?

    it could also include a bit of a fear response, underneath. they get close, you wonder how good of a friend they really are or you worry that they perceive you badly, so then you push them away, perhaps as part of a test, or before they get a chance to reject you. in some ways it's just easier to keep people at arm's length.

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    liz phair sings a great song about this. 'flower'
    perfect.
    every normal man must be tempted, at times,
    to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag,
    and begin slitting throats.
    h.l. mencken

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    Work on your Fe.
    Mercifulness is not a trait that the weak can possess. The world is full of idiots who like to think that they are merciful in order to forget that they actually are weak.

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    I think you are

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    Is it really necessary to bump a 6+ year old thread?
    I actually prefer a cup of tea over coffee, since the coffeemaker always needs cleaning.

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