Well, I've now figured out he's an ENTP. I actually initially thought (based on a test he did, that he did without much care) that he was an ENFP, and posted over in that forum. But after spending more time with him, I am 100% sure he's an ENTP.
Right. So, I have an insane crush on this ENTP. I am a very typical INFP. The problem is that I can't tell if this ENTP likes me as just a friend, or more. I need your help in guessing which it is.
The evidence, dear readers:
1. We work in a small (less than 10) group of people. He often seeks me out (4-5 a week) to do things like take walks and talk, or to discuss various ideas (he's got a PhD in philosophy). While he talks a lot, to everyone, and is extremely friendly, I feel as though he tries to spend time with me one-on-one more than with others
2. He is very complimentary to me, and not very much to other people
3. He is very witty and sharp, but will often check that I'm not upset due to jokes he's made, in quiet a sweet way
4. He's introduced me to his friends outside of work
But I am not sure if he simply views us as friends, since we have the same intellectual interests and can have a great conversation, or more. How would I know? He's not a very touch-y person (nor am I).
I enjoy him so much as a friend so if that's all it can be that's cool (really), but, of course, I think he's kind of lovely too...
As an ENTP, what do you ideally look for in partners/relationships, in general?