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^ Pure bloods only! Hahaha.
Drawing me in to fix your mess when I took all the necessary steps to avoid the mess to begin with. Taking advantage of the fact that I do genuinely sympathize with people and want to help.
Projecting your insecurities onto me.
Passive aggression. Expecting me to read your mind, then getting mad when I don't.
Being dismissive of me or talking down to me.
What makes NTs blow up?
I find that I have trouble controlling my temper when a problem occurs that I think could have easily been avoided.
I also have a real problem controlling it when I'm in a situation where a strong emotional response is provoked. Yes--I get mad about being mad...sad...any intense emotion.
- People in a position of power who are either undeserving or incapable of fulfilling their role.
- Injustice, especially against the innocent. (Bullies, abusive people, etc. harming people with good hearts can really irritate me)
- Being unable to do something that need, need, needs to be done is extremely frustrating. It's excruciatingly maddening, being forced into a state of incapability knowing full-well that you could solve that situation if the barrier wasn't there.
- On occasion, ignorant people. However, this depends on what that person is ignorant about as well as how they're behaving about it.
- Shallow jokes can irritate me... Especially when I'm bombarded by them for hours on end... I can only take so many "that's what she saids" and "(insert crude/homophobic/unfunny joke here)" before I retreat into my mind.
- People who can't drive.
- Greedy people irritate me very, very much.
- People without self-respect or class also irritate me.
I never "blow up" externally though. I tend to seethe internally.