ENFJ's are terrifying.
Well female ones, male ones get baffled by me. I dont even know what it is with ENFJ's, but several different females of the type ive met have left me feeling just strange. So i think i could make an assumption that i have a tendency to be confused particularly by ENFJ's.
They just strangely observe your every awkward move and theyve got some kind of mystical ability to strategically make assumptions of you and all sorts of strange things. Usually they're really helpful and nice in a weird way, and they sniff out what kind of person you are really fast and then decide that your boring. To me thats weird.
I'm armed with NT sarcasm and sometimes even ENTP'ish randomness against about all the other types, but the systematic Fe-Ni combo i cant handle. It's annoying because no matter how hard i try i cant get over the nervousness, always nice to see N's in the sea of sensors, but i cant show "the true me" to ENFJ's. They just presume im an ISTJ and proceed with whatever they were doing.
I think there even was a thread of this ENFJ talking about some INTP girl he'd never payed attention to, until lately after he found out she might have some sense in her head through some chess related incident? To me it seems that ENFJ's are sometimes "blinded by their social competence"? Not sure if i can express it right, but it seems that they sometimes overlook especially more introverted peoples potential. Befriending ENFJ's is complicated, at least for me. ENFJ's make me shut down, theres nothing i can say without feeling dumb, plus every move i make feels awkward. Maybe its the feelings everywhere thingy theyve got? Strange strange ENFJ's.
Do you people have a particular type that tends to make you shut down? Kind of interested in NT responses so i put this here but guess everyone can post?