It's certain behaviors that make me shut down, not types.
Examples of behaviors that will make me shut down:
*Be smothering or overprotective
*Be overly effusive to the point of being insincere
*Insult my intelligence or competence
*Insist you are right and not be willing to consider another viewpoint
*Be overly rigid about rules and not have common sense about when exceptions should be made
*Be too talkative. Ask me too many questions and expect me to have answers immediately and not allow me to think things through.
*Being more angry than the situation warrants
*Being too nosy.