No, don't blame it on type, it's not type related.
Not all men are the same, not all ENTPs are the same. If they exist at all. You are talking about a concept...the stereotypes of a concept, reflected in people.
But people are a bit from this, a bit from that, they're not everything from that.
Try having a serious conversation with him, face to face, in my opinion this is the best advice available. Talk, clarify. It's the best thing you can do, to have things your way.