[MBTI General] NT/Ps - Name Your Friends.

[Scorquendo]

Anyways, I was just curious what other rational friends' types were since it seems apparent to me, at least, that I don't really have any NF or NT friends (one of my close friends could possibly be an INFP, but sometimes he is too much of a sensor and a conformist).

For some reason, I seem to gel best with the ISF/TPs; literally, of the good 10 friends I've had my whole life, they have all been artisans. They are laid-back, take my criticisms in a lovable way, and seem to always find my observations interesting. With T/FJ's, I'm pretty lax, but I get bored of them quite fast. My sister's an FJ and we have a good relationship, though.

The last time I had a good NT relationship was with my childhood friend, whom later got into drugs, alcohol, and the whole she-bang

That being said, I've met a few NFs (whom I thought were kind of annoying and stupid) and an ENTJ (who was just a total douche).

 

[entropie]

You are too critical of your friends. It's a bit sucky if you call someone a friend and a douche at the same time

The people I hang out with at work and other people I occassionaly meet are nearly all SJs. They somehow accept me in their middle, tho I basically never agree with the groups opinion. Since I make no big deal of a disagreement it's probably how it works.

My best friends were an infp, intp, esfp, entj and an intj men and one infj and intj girl.

I tend to type my friends I, maybe that's a sign aswell

I do get along very well with istj's and istp's, there's a mutual feeling of harmony between us, tho we have most often totally different intrests.

 

[Scorquendo]

You are too critical of your friends. It's a bit sucky if you call someone a friend and a douche at the same time

You misread my post. I never called that ENTJ a friend, did I?

That being said, I've met a few NFs (whom I thought were kind of annoying and stupid) and an ENTJ (who was just a total douche).

I was only calling to the notion that other NF/Ts I've "met" had never gelled with my type like predicted in the text and I seem to have a better rapport with SPs, instead.

 

[entropie]

You maybe then need friends who are intelligent enough to understand you correctly or you try to come back onto the realm of normal people

 

[Scorquendo]

You maybe then need friends who are intelligent enough to understand you correctly or you try to come back onto the realm of normal people

I don't understand you're analysis of me as a person. Maybe this is just another misunderstanding, but I just started this thread because I was curious what types other NTs hang out with, not because I wanted someone who barely knows me to critique my social circle.

Clearly you are in no position to tell me whom I need to meet or what I need to do as I am happy with my friends even though, to my surprise, we are relatively unlike one another.

Any other NTs want to add to the expressed meaning of my original post?

 

[entropie]

Man you are an easy pick

 

[copperfish17]

My top three friends are as follows (not in any order): INTJ, ENFJ, ISTJ

 

[Arthur Schopenhauer]

INTJ, ISFJ and ISFP.

 

[NPcomplete]

My friends are as follows in no particular order: INFJ times 3, ENFJ, INFP, INTP, ISTJ, INTJ times 2, ENTJ, ESTJ, ESFP

 

[INTPness]

ENTJ, ENFJ, ENFP (x2), ISTJ, ISTP, ISFP.

"P" almost always bugs me as a trait in other people. I'm P myself, but was raised in a family of extreme J's - and I think that's why "P" in my friends gets on my nerves. I can relate to it and I can appreciate it for it's good points (flexibility, go-with-the-flow, relaxed, and often times very creative), but the conversation tends to go like this (notice the complete non-committal and vagueness in every statement):

P#1: We should hang out sometime.
P#2: Yeah, we can probably hang out this week sometime - or maybe next week. If you get some free time, give me a call.
P#3: OK, I think I'm pretty busy this week but, yeah, call me too if you're free - maybe we can squeeze something in.
P#4: OK, yeah, we'll talk soon then.
*A month goes by with no contact*

The good thing is, neither party gets mad or upset. We're both very understanding and the next time we see each other (even if it's a year later) is just as fun as the last time. But, sometimes it's just too much P, not enough J. Too much "I don't know, we'll see". I wonder if J/J friendships are the same way - if they get on each other's nerves after a while or if they love each other and have anal-rententive parties

 

[Qlip]

EXFJ (angry douchebag), INTJ, INTP