I never liked dancing myself. I am way too self conscious for one. "Dance music" has never made me feel like dancing and I generally don't like pop music as such. There are quite a few rock songs that make me feel like dancing (in private only) and ideally with a guitar in hand as if it was me on stage playing like Jimmy Page or ______. Not really dancing in the traditional sense. A master guitar player really makes me feel the music. Repetitive "beat" music irritates me. I see some people who can't help themselves but to dance when they hear music in public like some pavlovian response and makes me wonder.
I think if I ever was going to like to dance it would have had to be back in the pre-disco days when dancing was a more traditional courtship thing. You know like the tango or something (it takes two). :-). The whole solo club dancing thing I don't really get and it sends mixed signals. I can't quite grasp the whole "lets go out and dance" for the sake of dancing concept. Crowds of sweaty, smokey, drunk obnoxious people and awful loud music is not my idea of fun. I'm Not sure if that is an NT thing or just my shyness/self consciousness. I also don't get the wanting to watch "dancing with the stars" type shows either. I can appreciate dance in a theater play or something if it is graceful, but when I see Beyonce dance on a TV commercial it makes me cringe. She is an amazon and tall people (like me) don't dance well in general.