Why do you keep using fiction to illustrate real life, as if fiction can explain how people interact? Focus on reality. Get out of your head and start trying to understand people as individuals, not type restricted stereotypes.
1. I have worked with TJ's who are not as you describe.
2. I have had healthy working relationships with ENTJ's and INTJ's (TJ's). Where the dynamic is NOT contentious between myself and them. ESTJ's, thus far in my life, have been a harder nut to crack.
3. Sobel and Winters can jump off a cliff for all I care.
You're dense; makes me wonder if you really are an INTP. You seem more like an ESTJ. The example is a good one; go view in Youtube or watch that part of the series.