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    You're welcome

    Good that you've finally come across the right decision. No idea how to get over limerence, but there is a thread on it.



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    Honey, you walked right into this one. Next time, no more blowing smoke and sunshine when the guy's blatantly not invested. Walk early and frequently.

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    i feel the need to replace him with ethanol. who here lives in the 7x7.
    I may be kindly, I am ordinarily gentle, but in my line of business I am obliged to will terribly what I will at all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Metaphor View Post
    Honey, you walked right into this one. Next time, no more blowing smoke and sunshine when the guy's blatantly not invested. Walk early and frequently.
    Amen. But that takes some experience (at least I had to learn it the hard way). Can I ask how old you are, agentfurrina, or how often something like this has happened before?
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    just wanted to check back in. nothing has really changed, apart from some heavy deliberation on my part (i.e., trying to exorcize my feelings for him with no success). i had learned that he'd slept with his ex recently...he had told me he wasn't exclusive so didn't lie to me, but it still hurt as it happened on my birthday*. shitty, just shitty. so last week i told him i needed time to think and decide how i wanted to proceed: a) walk away; b) be friends--he says he wants me in his life one way or another; c) date for the 2 months he said he needs to decide whether he can commit to being with me in a long-term, exclusive relationship ultimately leading to marriage (= our individual relationship goals).
    Honey, GTFO...NOW!

    He's got you hanging on a string. Yeah, I know how it is when you can see that potential of something great happening hanging in front in you--that's the curse of the intuitive and it can be hard to put down. But this mess here? There's a right way and wrong way to do things and he's lining it all up so that someway somehow he wins.



    Hurt people end up hurting others. It's not his fault that he's still dealing with pain but he's going about trying to heal his pain in a way that will end up hurting you. If he can't do that or respect that, you need to walk and not look back.

    Edit: Ah, I didn't see the last couple of posts. Good for you and good riddance to him. I'm sorry this has been so painful to you.

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    excellent point

    i just crossed the dreaded 30 barrier. old enough to know better, i suppose. i once dated a man who was juggling several women at once. after a few rational discussions (definitely before love was involved), he decided to exclusively date me. he recently admitted that, had i walked away when he first told me about the other women in his life, he would have hunted me down anyway. i guess it never sunk in, otherwise i might have thought of doing the same thing with this guy.
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    it never works with multiple people at the same time, especially if you are looking for exclusivity.

    So your female friends that came up with the idea of dating multiple guys, how long have they been married?

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowriot View Post
    So your female friends that came up with the idea of dating multiple guys, how long have they been married?
    only one is married. and i recently learned, has threesomes with her husband while on vacation. to spice up the marriage! the rest are wildly confused, chronically single, very smart (and very lonely) women.

    the happily married women i know advised me to run, and invest in a set of batteries.
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    and the unhappily married?

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    advised me to use him for sex. and sent me a link to redtube in case that didn't pan out.
    I may be kindly, I am ordinarily gentle, but in my line of business I am obliged to will terribly what I will at all.
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