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    ✿ڿڰۣஇღ♥ wut ♥ღஇڿڰۣ✿ digesthisickness's Avatar
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    i am so confused. have you not had sex with her yet?
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    I have not had sex with her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatsNorway View Post
    I have not had sex with her.
    WHY?!?
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    Quote Originally Posted by MatsNorway View Post
    I have not had sex with her.
    Quote Originally Posted by digesthisickness View Post
    WHY?!?
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    Quote Originally Posted by digesthisickness View Post
    WHY?!?

    Her friend was sleeping on the couch. ++

    Besides im still not sure if its a smart thing to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatsNorway View Post
    Her friend was sleeping on the couch. ++

    Besides im still not sure if its a smart thing to do.

    her friend hasn't been sleeping on the couch constantly for the last month. you've kissed and given her massages, etc..

    smart thing in what way? what do you think will happen if you do?
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    Quote Originally Posted by MatsNorway View Post
    Her friend was sleeping on the couch. ++

    Besides im still not sure if its a smart thing to do.
    Go bang her!

    Well, first of all - What do you want out of this girl?


    Ask yourself "What is the reason I am associating myself with this girl?"

    Do you want to be friends?
    Do you want her to be "just another girl" you occasionally hang out with?
    Do you want to be fuck buddies?
    Do you want to get into a shallow relationship?
    Do you want to go in for the long haul?

    The ESFP doesn't know what she wants. You, being an INTJ, probably know what you want.

    Shall it be a fuck buddy? So go and bang her!

    A relationship? Not with an SFJ! NO WAY IN HELL.

    Are you reluctant to have sex? Think of it as stress relief. A good excuse to not go to the gym.

    Man, if it weren't for sex I'd have 20 heart attacks over.

    I come home from work all run down from the stress at my job, worrying about tomorrow's quarterly earnings quota - and instead of reaching for a mega dose of Xanax to relieve the stress - I go for a condom and - BAM! Relief Ahh
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    Quote Originally Posted by MoneyTick View Post
    Go bang her!

    Well, first of all - What do you want out of this girl?


    Ask yourself "What is the reason I am associating myself with this girl?"

    Do you want to be friends?
    Do you want her to be "just another girl" you occasionally hang out with?
    Do you want to be fuck buddies?
    Do you want to get into a shallow relationship?
    Do you want to go in for the long haul?

    The ESFP doesn't know what she wants. You, being an INTJ, probably know what you want.

    Shall it be a fuck buddy? So go and bang her!
    actually, no matter what the answer is to any of those questions, banging her is still sensible.

    it's been a month. if he hasn't even attempted, i imagine she's practically insulted at this point.
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    Much of the relationship happens in your head, not much of it happens in hers. As far as she's concerned, and perhaps as far as you should be concerned too, the relationship is what happens when you do things together. Your plans don't count for much unless they're based on tangible action undertaken together. Which is to some degree discussed too.

    Suggest, then do. Don't suggest, and it won't get done. And note that even when you do suggest, and something does get done, there'll always be an out for her. There'll always be some excuse. There'll always be some momentary attractive thing that proved that something else should be done while you weren't looking.

    So, go with your gut, but make sure your gut was informed by actual things that actually happened. (And observe that if you are going with your gut instinct, then whatever you decide is on you. Which is kinda liberating, if you think about it. And is equal parts appalling too, I know.)

    This is my humble estimation of how to work with SFPs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by digesthisickness View Post
    actually, no matter what the answer is to any of those questions, banging her is still sensible.

    it's been a month. if he hasn't even attempted, i imagine she's practically insulted at this point.
    @ Digest, I concur

    Good luck INTJ from Norway!

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    Catch ya latter!
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