Doing whats right is hard. She has no spesial feelings to me now and mines are most likely going to cool down more and more as she don`t show me any feelings and gives no verbal compliments. The question is then.. will whe then only have random sex. If so. is it possible that she might evolve feelings, be unable to communicate them and then get hurt because im not on the same page and are beginning to move out and to start to look for that bond.
Im thinking i might need to confront her with that issue ++ others.
But then i might hurt her if she has feelings but don`t say it. Not that i believe that tho.. After all i did not se her that much that new years eve. she left for a party for a 3-4hours and i did not see her before later, and when i did.
with confident voice and a smile.
goes about her bizniz¨
Everyone commented it.
Later i confronted her with it and K simply said: i can do that sometimes. I guess thats ok, i can be that myself when im in my own world.
And then there is the fysical aspect. she has no problem showing herself in only the lower underwear. And if i wanted sex that night that would have happened. Her friend was sleeping on the couch. 4meters away in the next room.
There is a lack of consistency in the behaviour.
It usually means something.