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    Doing whats right is hard. She has no spesial feelings to me now and mines are most likely going to cool down more and more as she don`t show me any feelings and gives no verbal compliments. The question is then.. will whe then only have random sex. If so. is it possible that she might evolve feelings, be unable to communicate them and then get hurt because im not on the same page and are beginning to move out and to start to look for that bond.

    Im thinking i might need to confront her with that issue ++ others.
    But then i might hurt her if she has feelings but don`t say it. Not that i believe that tho.. After all i did not se her that much that new years eve. she left for a party for a 3-4hours and i did not see her before later, and when i did.

    me:
    "hi K"
    with confident voice and a smile.
    K:
    turns head.
    "Hi Mats"
    goes about her bizniz¨

    Everyone commented it.

    Later i confronted her with it and K simply said: i can do that sometimes. I guess thats ok, i can be that myself when im in my own world.

    And then there is the fysical aspect. she has no problem showing herself in only the lower underwear. And if i wanted sex that night that would have happened. Her friend was sleeping on the couch. 4meters away in the next room.

    There is a lack of consistency in the behaviour.
    It usually means something.

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    From what I've observed ESFPs have no problem communicating their feelings, they are similar to ENFPs that way. If anything, ExFPs are overly expressive and can come across as needy when they aren't being totally self-absorbed and flighty. Yeah, I know, it's confusing. I'm not sure if she's playing hard to get or if she actually doesn't have any feelings for you. I can't say because I don't know her.

    Maybe you should try to make a move?

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    what move?

    I have kissed her, given her massage, i have touched most of her body. She likes all that, i like all that.
    She probably has a communication issue. I have told her she looks good, is nice to me and blablabla. have she said anything in return?

    niet!

    she does it possibly fysically.

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    ESFPs don't have communication issues. If you're sure she's an ESFP, then you're just deluding yourself by saying that. My mother is an ESFP and I'm most probably an ENFP, AND one of my sisters is an ExFP.

    I'd agree if she were an ISFJ or an INFx, or a T type, but not an ExFP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by marmalade.sunrise View Post
    ESFPs don't have communication issues. If you're sure she's an ESFP, then you're just deluding yourself by saying that. My mother is an ESFP and I'm most probably an ENFP, AND one of my sisters is an ExFP.

    I'd agree if she were an ISFJ or an INFx, or a T type, but not an ExFP.
    hmm looked at the ISFP and most of it fits.
    hmmm.

    She doesn`t look at my face/eyes much. I would think thats more of a ES thing. not that im good at this MBTI stuff.

    Is ISFPs naturally more iNtinutive than ESFPs? kinda.. you know. or is it just that both of us is introverts so we get the same pictures when we speak or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatsNorway View Post
    She doesn`t look at my face/eyes much. I would think thats more of a ES thing.
    And that would not be a smart thought...

    Quote Originally Posted by MatsNorway View Post
    Is ISFPs naturally more iNtinutive than ESFPs?
    All else being equal: they should be.

    Ni is their tertiary function, whereas it's the inferior for the ESFP.

    Quote Originally Posted by MatsNorway View Post
    kinda.. you know. or is it just that both of us is introverts so we get the same pictures when we speak or something.
    Could be both...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatsNorway View Post
    hmm looked at the ISFP and most of it fits.
    hmmm.

    She doesn`t look at my face/eyes much. I would think thats more of a ES thing. not that im good at this MBTI stuff.

    Is ISFPs naturally more iNtinutive than ESFPs? kinda.. you know. or is it just that both of us is introverts so we get the same pictures when we speak or something.
    Dude, SFPs are the devil's mousetraps (in the context of dating).

    They're cute, lovable, innocent, attractive, and they will SUCK YOU IN.

    Its like nothing I've ever seen.

    They will lure you in with their soft-spoken voice and their lovable cute personality. If you are dating an ISFP/ESFP for the first time - you are a small fish nibbling on really tasty bait. When you get hooked, then you realize you got played.

    NT + SPF = CONFUSION

    You are confused, my man. She probably seems like she's really into you - but you don't know what is really going on! You're NT side wants to jump to conclusions - Where does the relationship stand? How far can this go? What will happen in the future?

    And her SF side screams - I don't know!

    SFPs are shoppers, not buyers.

    You go into the market knowing exactly what you are looking for, she goes in to find what's on the shelves.

    I have plenty of experience with SFPs and SFJs. Don't go down that road

    And I have nothing bad to say about them in general, it's just that I've mistaken their extreme "niceness" towards me for genuine interest.

    There is no genuine interest, for the long term.

    Confusion, confusion, confusion.

    Trust me - its bait, not the real thing.

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    I have been reading some more and ISFP does not seem to match better than ESFP.
    I have no good references anyway so... nevermind my previous input on the matter.

    But thanks for the info. it will be relevant once i meet a ISFP. then i will be able to see the differences.

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    This will not end well...
    But it will at least be poetic, I suppose...

    Hmm... But what if it does end well?
    Then I suppose it will be a different sort of poetry, a preferable sort...
    A sort I could become accustomed to...



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    Quote Originally Posted by MoneyTick View Post
    Dude, SFPs are the devil's mousetraps (in the context of dating).

    They're cute, lovable, innocent, attractive, and they will SUCK YOU IN.

    Its like nothing I've ever seen.

    They will lure you in with their soft-spoken voice and their lovable cute personality. If you are dating an ISFP/ESFP for the first time - you are a small fish nibbling on really tasty bait. When you get hooked, then you realize you got played.
    I have slightly touched that once.

    And it was actually the much the same way as now. No compliments.
    She just laid there like a piece of meat. I was not impressed.

    But "doing whats right, does not get you laid"


    soo.... hmm..

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