wow.. you sound very similar to my friend lol. hmm, thanks for sharing!Do you ever Want to befriend someone, if so, do you ever put in the effort to hang out with them more often or find time to spend with them? Do you often try to invite them out or wait for the other person to ask instead?
Yes, I often want to be friends with people seconds after meeting them. Something about them makes me want to seek them out as I can see us having an excellent friendship. However, its a bit creepy to say that or act that way so I tend to just act friendly and witty and hope they also wish to be friends.
Are you usually kind and say things out of politeness instead of what you really think? (like compliments and such)
I only give compliments if I mean them and I always say what I'm thinking if asked. I rarely lie to make someone feel better, I feel as though that is meaner than telling them the truth so they can fix the problem if there is one.
Do you trust your friends easily, how do they gain your trust?
I trust my close friends with my life. I'm paranoid at times -- but I'm more apt to trust random then people I have known for some time and don't consider close. I get a vibe on if I should trust someone or not, and if I don't trust you right away I probably never will.
How long does it take for you to open up and feel comfortable around a friend? What kinds of people do you open up to easier or gravitate towards?
I tend to open up towards the XNFP types and gravitate towards them. They may be flaky at times, but they offer the best advice and assistance.
What do you enjoy most about your friends? What kind of qualities do you like in your friendship?
I enjoy that they accept me and my eccentricities are never boring. I like that I can trust them and be open with them and they do not judge me and my issues.
What qualities do you Not like in your friendships? Any deal-breakers?
Backstabbers. Lack of trust.
If I can't trust them, or if they frustrate me by being ridiculous, then I have no time for them.
If your friends had a totally different view on something that you believed to be important and right, would you think of them differently?
Yes. I respect their thoughts however, especially if they are close friends. I may get frustrated with them, because I feel as though I am right -- but it's really none of my concern. If it effects me, then I have a problem.
Do you ever feel like you have certain obligations to your friends and try to fulfill them? Or do you usually do it because you want to?
Sometimes I do. And I will fulfill them if it makes them happy.
I want to make them happy.
In turn, do you usually have any expectations of your friends? What if they don't fulfill them?
I definitely have expectations for my friends and very high ones. I can get really foul sometimes if they aren't met.
You know this is why I like you guys! So honest and direct lol. I kinda know how he's feeling all the time because he makes it so obvious for me to know.If someone were annoying you, would you ever confront them about it? What would you do if you didn't like someone's company and yet they kept trying to talk to you?
I'd tell them they were annoying me and to go away.
Do you share personal thoughts often? Would you feel threatened/annoyed if it seemed like someone kept asking about your personal life?
I can talk about my personal life until I'm blue in the face. Sex and other "private" things do not bother me at all to talk about, in fact I enjoy talking about it. However, talking about how I feel about certain things? No! I react unfavorably and will avoid that person if they continually bring up emotions and such.
How do you usually act when you're having a good time? How do you usually act when you're having a bad time?
I will act like a complete bitch if I'm not having a good time. I will probably leave and have no problems voicing my problem. But when I'm having a good time, it is also very well known.