I have recently realised that one of my best friends is an INTJ. He's pretty must the posterboy for an INTJ, now that I think about it. Anyway, I have a question for all your INTJs:
Do you find it difficult/undesirable to commit to social appointments several days in advance of the party/meet-up/event etc.?
I ask this because this has been one quality of my friend that has consistently irked me for years! He will never agree to something until the very last minute, sometimes even a day before if it's something informal like a party or a night out with other mates.
Is this a quality of INTJs in general or just my friend? I imagine this personality trait could derive from a need to acquire as much information as possible in order to make an "informed" decision. So, the INTJ would wait until the last possible minute at which s/he must make a choice so that s/he can sift through all of the data in order to decide "What choice would be the most logical and best for me?" This can be frustrating for me (if I am the one organising the event) but also seems to deny any chance of being spontaneous...
Is this an accurate supposition? Can you shine any more light on this trait, if it be a truly INTJ one?